I forgot to address this question, and as I came across it I was momentarily stunned, maybe shocked into stillness. I really wasn't sure what was meant by these terms, and whilst I could comprehend the words I wasn't confident in the innate meaning. What should I feel when I reflect on each term? How should I relate to it?
Skimming over the list, instinct says "loving container" and I realise i must concur. Focus, I've never lacked; it's pretty impossible to be an overachiever without focus. Desire, action, i can do, these are the areas that I've always been proud to excel in, but love - loving me, for the bulk of my journey that's been an alien concept. I have only fairly recently started to actively love myself, speak to myself from a place of love and kindness, and prioritise my needs.
I've always bullied and berated myself, being totally unaware that's what I was doing, believing I was encouraging myself, motivating myself to achieve. And I truly believed that denial was the key to success. It may sound absurd in print, but denying temporary desires and 'distractions', was bound to generate bigger and more significant things.