i'm so in love with this site still (yes yes diva nut) and am so thankful for the opportunity to ask these questions we need to ask..
divas, does giving head give you a scratchy soar throat? its only been a few months with my new love and we are enjoying the endless passionate moments of bliss filled evenings mornings afternoons and in betweens..
only recently though i've picked up on a pattern twice now. that is, twice now, a day or so after i give my lover oral pleasure, my throat is sore. i mean like hard to swallow sore. like 'am i getting sick' sore. and then a few days later its gone.
what's the deal?
my roommates sister who is a nurse says sore throats from oral sex is rare. but i clearly see a connection and wonder what the deal is. my lover is also not circumsized. would this have anything to do with it? my roommate tells me men who are not circumsized tend to carry more bacteria (coodies) in their penis than men who don't.
divas, what do you think? any juicy stories to share? or better yet, any remedies for a sore throat after deep throat?
thanks to those who are reading this. and sending light your way.
How lucky you are, Diva Nia, to have an uncircumsized lover. So is he! Can you include a washing ritual in your loveplay, just to make sure? Also, are you ingesting semen? My first thought was thrush, aka yeast or candida. This may be a signal to him that something in his body chemistry needs shifting through dietary changes. And/or yours too. Opportunity for deep communication between you too, engaged in gently. Start with the washing.
Does anyone have ideas for remedies or nutrients to clear men's semen and juices of yeasties?
from one pisces to another, its a very wet very fluid connection thus far and in all ways.
communication has been expansive. he and i work hard during the week (don't we all) so our time together is recognized by both of us as precious and in that recognition our time together is spent in high vibration. usually spent in a place where time itself doesn't exist ...or as close to that as we possibly arrive to.
it really is like making love to myself or the other 1/2 of me. there are things (as you know) that we are still getting use to, exploring about each other but its like we're both artists so we know how to work our hands, our mouths, our bodies.
he's the 2nd pisces lover i've ever had. the first was a dud. selfish in bed.
i could go on but alas i am at work and must get back to it.
ciao diva Carla. thank you for asking. the pisces pisces connection is a wet one. at least for me. (though i could have more orgasms...this is something we need to work on)...